[Hope1]

Thanks for your comments, I may seem that I’ve handled it well, but I know that there’s much I can improve on, I know that I can’t be an enabler, that is vitally important. I say what i say to my son always with the best intention, sometimes because of my frustration and anger it doesn’t alway come out as it should. I felt I was losing heart, yet I know from reading some of velvet thread that it is possible for people to be in long term recovery. It’s such a hard journey for the CG. And me. My son has been lucky enough to have been on the GM programme, so I am grateful that 1 he accepted he had a problem, and 2 he was responsive to help. It’s just so important he uses the tools on a day to day basis. Thanks again