Hi Monica,
What were you saying about wise women? Look in the mirror!
I’d say you are pretty spot on. And not to keep stirring this pot but here is what I will add. I personally don’t think Geordie is coming from a place of needing or wanting to be right. I think he is coming from the a place where his gut is telling him he is right and he only wants to save others from the further damage they may cause themselves. But we can’t save everyone! I totally agree that it should have been addressed as a gentle correction on the thread where the suggestion was made. Both men believes themselves totally. Only time will tell. And I’m willing to let time tell. You can’t force recovery on someone. No matter how many times we fall and no matter how much we want to save people from further pain. Sometimes we just have to let things be and take their course. That has been part of all our journey’s. Peace everyone!
Laura