Hi Lorraine, I read your post on P’s thread. I’m not sure what you mean by it’s too late for you. I firmly believe it is never too late for any of us. We can all start again. Us gamblers tend to want things instantly, eg our finances sorted, people to trust us again etc. we find it hard to work on things and watch things build up slowly. I believe there is no part of our lives we cannot rebuild…our finances, our relationships, trust etc. I have read about people who were drug addicts lying on the streets waiting for certain death and suddenly one day everything changed., perhaps through finding God, and they went on to be fulfilled and have success in all parts of their life. It is never too late. You have a daughter. What would you say to her if she said it is too late for me to change or to have a good life. It is never too late. I’m sorry you have not received the support you deserve but please use this site and avail of all the help that is available. And please remember it is never too late to reach out and get help!!