Hi Lizbeth ,
I hope this post doesn’t come across cheekily or nastily as I am genuinely coming from a good place.
It feel like you and I have been on this site for a very long time and while others seem to be taking control of their lives we continue to gamble now and again – enough to have us living in constant worry. I’m not sure why we don’t kick it to the kerb . We both know by now no good comes of it.
It is almost as if we have become predictable in our relapses. Neither of us has done enough damage to end up homeless or in prison but both of us are depriving ourselves of the great worry free life we could have.
When money worries are constantly taking up space somewhere in our heads, we live a life of worry. Everything that happens – good or bad – becomes a worry about the cost .
I think we would be really helpful to each other if we met in chat. I think perhaps we are both making the same mistakes –
You have so much to offer Lizbeth- I am not surprised you were offered that job – you are a very caring person to all the people in your life. I hope you have a wonderful day at the birthday party. He is a lucky boy to have such a great Gran.