Hi ivy
I am glad you are protected financially as it is one less worry for you although I know the overall problem is far worse.
Your husband is certainly not making it any easier for himself asking you about football when you have told him to leave, it seems he is fairly deep in denial of what he is doing. He does sounds as though he needs good counselling if he is to change.
Is this the first time he has sought help and if so what sort of help is he seeking?
Of course I am sad that you feel that this is too late to save your marriage but I am more than aware that we all have limits – do you feel the same today?
Now that you are back on the forum I hope you will keep posting because this is obviously a very stressful time for you and I hope that by having people to talk to is will help you make the decision that is right for you.
Velvet
