Hi Charleen. I’m not going to comment on your chances of getting a refund, other than to say that isn’t the most important thing here.
More importantly what actions are you talking to make sure you don’t deposit any more on any gambling site?
It sounds like your partenr and family know about your gambling problems? How about he takes over the finances for a while so you can’t gamble? Making yourself accountable will both help you stop gamblign and show your family how much you mean it this time. Also of course put their mind at rest you aren’t still gambling.
What other interests do you have? What things are you going to fill your time with away from gambling? I know that’s not easy.
Keep posting here, let us know the positive steps you are taking.