Hi CGGF
nI think the best way I can answer your question is to ask you if you, would give a drink to an alcoholic – I think the answer will be ‘no’. Giving cash to a compulsive gambler is the same as giving that drink.
nI dont think it is harsh to refuse cash to a compulsive gambler. Your boyfriend wants cash to gamble, if you bought him drinks and food it would be better for him.
nI do believe that loving support is the best thing for a gambler trying to live a gamble-free life but loving support has to be tough and an addicted gambler can be very manipulative.
nYou sound a lovely girlfriend and your boyfriend is very lucky to have you on his side but please make sure that you take care of yourself because his addiction will hurt you if you allow it. Never forget how important you are and how important it is that you stay healthy and keep your finances safe.
nI wish you well
nPlease keep posting
nVelvet
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