[charles]

Hi Brendan. This is one of your wife’s closest friends and part of her own support network. If, hopefully, your relationship continues then it isn’t just your issue, it is something that effects your both. I know my own wife told her mother, did her mum tell anyone else? Not my business really.

If it comes up in conversation when you visit then my best advice would be to say yes, I messed up but now I am using support to address things.

Keep posting and hopefully see you ina group again soon.