Hi Bettie
I am so glad you are back posting . I changed my name at everyone’s insistence from “Sad” and I’m kinda glad I did – so you may or may not remember that.
I hope that the news is good with your daughter – it does sound like it will be .
I agree with Vera – it’s easy to say accept when you are not overwhelmed with pain and worry about your kids. You have been unbelievably strong in the face of such worries. I know people advise taking time out for ourselves but unfortunately our minds and our worries come with us on our time out .
We can’t make decisions for our kids when they get older – we can just be there supporting them, enjoying the good times with them and helping pick up the pieces after the bad times.
You are a great mum and gran- I am thinking though that perhaps you could find another outlet now that GA is gone – maybe a course, class or club so you get to connect with others and feels less lonely . Perhaps you could even start GA up again?
It is so nice seeing you back posting – keep strong xx