Hi
Thank you for replying, he has said to me that he will tell my friend and that he will keep me out of it, I’m giving him until Sunday or I will tell them myself as it’s not fair on them and they deserve the truth I’m so worried and scared to loose their friend ship.
I have told him about this sight and encourage him to make use of the help and support he can get i also have told him I really want him to do the one to one chats. He saids he will but seems apprehensive to start.
I have been really tough with him which is hard for me to do because I do love him but I want to make him see how serious this is and almost scare hime awake
I even said that if I wasn’t for our son I would of left him because it’s a build up of his issues over time and now being a mum I can’t have this around our son.
He got upset with me and told me what’s the point then I’ve made my mind. . I told him if I had given up I wouldn’t be so tough on him and I would of told him to leave. I just wanted to wake him up as he’s been acting so cold and distant. I told him I’ll support him and help him aslong as he gets help.
I asked him if he wanted to be with me and he said not right now and that we haven’t been right for months. . I was so broken and explained that after just having a baby of couse I am different and wasn’t giving him all the attention as I was adjusting to our new normal of being a family.
I got scared as I don’t want my family not together and broke down I want to move forward and be happy with him. I’m trying to be how I was and just not be cold and guarded but of course it’s at the back of my mind. But now I’m acting more my old self he has been his nice sweet self again
I just don’t want him to think I’ve forgotten or will allow this to go away. .. he has said he doesent know how to change and that gambling is just the surface.
Sorry again for another long reply