Hey Stephen, good to see you found the chat and that you have met Monica. A great lady with a really good mind. Right now I think your girlfriend is tired of words. She wants to see actions. Like finding someone else to help with your finances. Going to GA meetings regularly. Not gambling. Going to counseling? I think they even offer email counseling on this site. They used to anyway. Click on the link for one on one help and ask a facilitator. They are open business hours. Change yourself. If she doesn’t think you should need her help well than show her that you were right in that another person can help. It may take some time but if she sees these actions it may make a difference. Not to mention that if you work on your issues, the things that make you feel like gambling, then you will likely be a better person. I will try and go back and read the story. Been busy tackling over due paperwork. But that is another thing about GA. You get to hear real peoples stories. We need to keep an open mind and heart. Hope you had an ok night. Laura
