[vera]

Enablers, like CGs have problems…we were cut off mid conversation, Jen “What is said in the Group stays in the Group” so I won’t elaborate here. I just ask myself as a CG and also as an enabler (I fit into both categories)”What is in it for an enabler?” We know what is in it for a CG…thrills and deadly hangovers, grief and misery.

I’m kissing all that goodbye this year.

A “borrower” who I enabled in the past is “getting the message” from my recent refusals.

Why do I attract people like that. Why do I give loans?

My plan for the New Year is to stop lending. Stop borrowing. Life is much more simple when we pay our way weekly/monthly. Live within our means. Avoid getting caught up in “high finance”. In other words

KEEP IT SIMPLE!