Don’t jump the gun B!
Jen is probably up in a heap too!
I never want to visit my daughter or my sons in their new homes. They all share with other young people and they keep moving from one place to another and the other renters keep changing. My daughter is in Australia. She has never once invited her father and I to come to visit her. Don’t take it to heart B. If you want to go to visit Jen, why not arrange for you and her to have a “mother/daughter ” night in a hotel for a weekend after she has settled in. I’m sure she will love the break from the b/f at some stage !!!! You are free to visit at any time . Just let her know in advance! If she objects, take it from there when it happens.
Why does her B/F not pay a cleaner to leave the apartment in order when they leave. That is not your task!!!
