My Recovery has been far from perfect, Mutley. My debt will take a LONG time to pay off but I have set up a parallel Savings Scheme so that I can see some balance in my finances. By the time the debt is paid, I will also have something to show for my efforts. I would strongly recommend this to recovering CGs who have lost a lot of money.
Yes, I hear you about the “BEGRUDGERS” who try to drag us down. Envy and jealousy is at the root of that behaviour. Also, when people have a crowd to hide behind, it allows actions to be justified.
“Cowardice” is the word I would use to describe that carry on.
Just ignore them and stick with the positive friends.
Lead by example!