Dear Lily
That was a very brave post to write and I hope it will be treated by everyone with the respect it deserves.
I think you are probably right – neither of you had reached a place where you felt entirely safe and with all the other things going on in your lives, there were just too many ups and downs.
I am a great believer in the recovery of F&F being as important as the recovery of a CG – neither party wanted or asked for the addiction and both have to find their own way forward and make of it what they can. Nobody can save anybody else; we all have our own battles.
I think you are an amazing, caring woman who has come through some of the most awful circumstances and yet still manages to laugh with me in the F&F group.
I’m not going to write anymore but suffice it to say I have heard you and I will speak to you soon.
As Ever
