Hi Geordie. Do you mind me asking what work you do that requires you to work at that hour of the morning? I smiled at your discription of the circus not leaving town, even though the monkey may go….I shall remember that one. I agree with you totally about the shite hitting the fan if my partner finds out before I can tell him myself….how long did it take you to fess up? Every day I plan to tell him…I feel I’m getting closer every day to spilling the beans….asking myself lots of questions, should I tell him in the morning, before work, after work! In the weekend, before he goes out, I go out or should I make sure I’m at home for a while afterwards or he is as well?.?.when, when, when, when WHEN???
The counsellor, relooking at the her email said she would get back to me this week so I’ll give her a few more days. I’m finding this forum invaluable. You have no idea how your words and the words of others are helping me at this really tough time. The desire to gamble appears to be fading but I have been here before and it may be because I have no money. How long has it been since you have gambled? Do you still get the desire to do so? Hope you don’t mind my questions Geordie. With much appreciation. Tina