Well done on getting a job so quickly, Lizbeth. I hope it works out. Baby minding can be very difficult. It would be hard not to become emotionally involved and especially if the parents are bringing their personal difficulties into the situation. My heart would be broken for the little baby if I even got a hint of neglect or carelessness on their part. I would get over involved. She seems quite manipulative. It is no co incidence that she would text you about the weekend seeing that you looked after her child free of charge! I can see exactly why you would not want to take her money but it’s all about boundaries , Liz! You were employed to take care of that baby. You entered a financial arrangement. They broke the terms and conditions. Not you, so why put yourself on the backfoot. I’m not judging or criticizing BUT I feel you need to reflect on that….so do I, because I do similar things all the time. People like us can be quickly taken advantage of , Lizbeth. We need to toughen up!! It’s a big bad world out there. God help that little baby!
