Well here we are again, pay day cycle 3. We suspect he has done the same again, no money, his excuse being his bank card is damaged ( he showed me and it was bent) and hes waiting for a new one. Five days and it’s still not arrived. He won’t talk. I have said that he needs to be open and prove where his money is going, I have suggested that since he is having problems managing his finances he should hand over to me. There is nothing forthcoming from him. He is just existing, going to work is all he does then is reclusive in his room. What a life!!? I am just plodding, we are doing our best to protect ourselves. The only money I have given him is the train fare, perhaps I shouldn’t, but in a way it’s for me cos I can’t bear the thought of him not being in a job and ending up at home all day. Our son needs help, but he seems blind to it. To me he is in the same position he was in before GM rehab. I really can’t see his future. No matter how hard I try to get on with life, I feel totally exhausted. That’s why I didn’t join the live chat last week, it was just a bad day where I felt shattered and emotionally drained. Hope
