Cat, Thanks for your post. I did sleep better but I always have that constant fear in the back of my mind that something will happen to her. I know that she has to want to change her life but the longer she is in this madness, I fear that she will never want to change. It is something that I have to learn to deal with. All I can do is tell her how much I love her and how much she means to me. This weekend isn’t going as planned. My grandson and I are sick. A virus was going through his class and I think we have it. Basically we have been just resting. I am making sure that we are drinking plenty of fluids so we don’t get dehydrated. My sister is coming up to see my Mom on Sunday and Monday. We were supposed to get together but that will have to wait. Oh, my grandson thanked me last night for taking good care of him!!! How sweet is that!! Those little things are what makes my life!!