Thank you both for posting.
I think part of the issue with compulsive gambling is admitting you have a problem.
I was continually telling lies about my gambling to my girlfriend and family, I was also being dishonest with myself or at least not ready to admit to myself that I had a problem.
Admitting my problem to myself, girlfriend and family was the first step and they have all been very supportive. Next was to attend a GA meeting and that was also a big help and will hopefully continue to be.
I started this thread with the heading ‘Some understanding…’, what better place to be or better place to seek help than with people who have gone through or are going through the same things as you.
At the GA meeting on Saturday I was put at ease straight away and couldn’t have been made to feel more welcome. I fully understand the difficulty in walking through those doors for the first time, but it might end up being the best decision you’ve ever made. My view was that I won’t know, until I give it a try.
I also believe that we are all different, (compulsive gambling aside), so what works for one person may not work for the next.
I wish everyone all the best and thank you for reading and posting. The stories on here and support I’ve received have also been a big help in recognising and dealing with my own issues.