[Dark Energy]

hi,
make her part of your recovery, and hand over the financial part to her, it is a huge trigger for us as a gambler if you can do that it will benefit you in both ways, regain the trust, 2nd you will have fewer urges to gamble, and from her perspective, she will feel more secure.

you can ask your salary to be transferred to her account or to a joint account, so she can monitor the transactions, or give her full control which is better at least for the first 6 months to 1 year.