Well, i did survive…..
Thank you all so much for your posts, i was pretty overwhelmed by them all.  I couldnt tell him Friday night, he was so happy, Ponting had just hit a 4 (cricket!) and he was cheering and hoo haaing…so, i chickened out.
This morning i felt sick.  It wasnt just because i had to tell him, it was because i hadnt told him.  So i bit the bullet and just blurted it all out.  I wont go  into the gorey details, it was not pretty, but, it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be.  Perhaps it also helped that im working this weekend, so i pretty much told him and 20 minutes later i was out the door to work.  He was ok when i got home, in fact, we went out for dinner and a little shop at Kmart, which was really nice .  Only one thing spoiled it….on the way home, he had the most horrific road rage, so bad that i closed my eyes and covered my face because i thought for sure he was going to smash into the car in front of us and i was either going to die, or going to be permanantly maimed.  Then he had the cheek to say to me that there were so many bad drivers on the road…..omg. 
Anyway, im alright, im not stressed about paying the debt as it is a small amount, we can afford it at the moment.  I am so tired, i think i was tired when i woke up knowing that i was going to have to tell him. 
Thank you all for your support, you dont know just how much i needed it yesterday.
Love you all, Kathryn xxxTo live, that would be a great adventure – Peter Pan